So a while back I posted a blog that was titled, If We Were Having Coffee, and I throughly enjoyed writing that post but that title still seems off to me. It’s probably because I don’t even really drink coffee, I am more of a tea girl and even then it seems like I don’t drink caffeine as a whole because it seems to have zero effect. I think it’s been almost 5 months since I wrote that, don’t quote me though, and a lot has changed.
I guess the first thing I feel as though I should mention and that I want to mention is that I am in a relationship again. I was initially the one to break the relationship off and it seemed like we were faking being friends or something for the sake of pleasing some of my friends and family. I was innocent and naive went we first started our relationship and I believe it was good for us to have that time apart but things seem so much better right now that we are together.
There currently isn’t much else to say about that topic other than that I might write a post sometime about having your friends and family influencing your decisions more than they should… idk let me know. Then again I think too much and debate if it was just the conversations I had with friends and family that pushed me into some downward spiral of thinking.
I want to move on though because so much, and I mean so much, has changed in my life. So far this year it just seems as though things are falling into place and correcting themselves. I have also worked on my ways of thinking and trying to better those as well. One of the things that has brought me immense joy was that while on vacation I was contacted asking if I wanted the position in a different building that I was initially denied for. Side note: I am a Resident Advisor at my university. The staff and everyone at the building said they wanted to work with me but that with so many candidates for the position that were “better suited” aka being at least 21 years of age or close to it that they had to deny me the position. Well, with a RA (resident advisor) of the building dropping a week or so before training they extended the offer. This was great news for me because I am taking 19 credit hours worth of classes this semester, hold leadership positions in at least 4 organizations on campus, and still try to be a human, it was nice to be treated as an adult.
The new building I work at now is structured completely different than the other residence halls on campus because the building is set up as blocks of apartments in which you have to be 21 years or older to live and/or work at. That means when I accepted the position, I accepted an APARTMENT as well. Many of you have or will experience this moment in your life where you experience freedom and ownership as well as being an adult and let’s just say it is a great feeling. It is also amazing to have a place that is completely your own and feels like a home while being in college.
With that said, there will be an apartment tour coming soon! I just have to finish decorating a few things.
Over the past couple months I have also gone through phases when I came to this blog as well. I couldn’t decide where I wanted my blog to go and so I believe it suffered because of it. I have now gotten to a point that I just want to write and share with my viewers. Over time I will figure out what I want and until then I will continue to write through it.
The last thing I feel like mentioning today is that I am trying to push myself toward a overall healthier lifestyle. As a third year college student the last two years left me with a pathetic sleep schedule, bad food habits (aka scarfing down food), and bad relationship with the gym.
So this semester, I am aiming to improve on all of these. I will check back in later but for now I am going to the gym about 3-4 days a week and am trying to stick to natural food.
Thanks for reading & have a great day!